12 Self-Imposed Limitations & How to Get Rid of Them ASAP

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Do you ever feel like something is holding you back from achieving your goals and living the life you deserve? Does it sometimes feel like you are your own worst enemy? This is due to self-doubt—the root of most self-imposed limitations.

Let’s face it—it’s hard to overcome any other self-imposed limitations if you don’t have the confidence to believe in yourself. But don’t worry, it’s not the end of the world—plus, we all feel this way at some point in our lives. And the good news is that there are ways to overcome your self-imposed limitations and take charge of your life.

In this post, we’ll explore some common barriers to success and provide actionable tips on how to overcome them.

What are self-imposed limitations?

Self-imposed limitations are a set of beliefs or habits that prevent you from taking action, achieving success, and living a quality life. They can be acquired through past experiences, fear of failure, or lack of knowledge and understanding. By limiting your attitude and mindset, you limit your potential for growth and progress.

Self-imposed Limitations & How To Get Rid of Them

12 Examples of Self-Imposed Limitations

1. Lack of Self-Belief/Lack of Confidence:

Self-doubt is a common barrier to success. When you don’t believe in yourself, it’s hard to overcome any other limitations. The key is to focus on your strengths and abilities. Write down your achievements, both big and small.

Remind yourself of past successes, and use these as motivation to tackle new challenges. You are capable of more than you realize.

2. Fear of Failure:

Fear of failure is closely tied to a lack of self-confidence. If you think you’ll fail, you might not even try. But the truth is that failure is a part of the learning process. Everyone fails at some point, and the most successful people are the ones who have learned from their mistakes.

Make a list of the worst possible outcomes and ask yourself, “What’s the worst that can happen?” You’ll likely find that the consequences of failure are not as dire as you originally thought.

3. Perfectionism:

Perfectionism can be a real hindrance to success too. When you want everything to be flawless, starting or completing tasks can feel overwhelming, leading to inaction. The key is to focus on progress, not perfection.

Break tasks down into smaller, more manageable steps, and celebrate your achievements along the way. Take note of any thoughts or feelings that arise when you make a mistake and challenge yourself to reframe them in a more positive light.

4. Procrastination:

Procrastination is often fueled by fear, lack of confidence, and/or perfectionism. The key is to take action, even if it’s just a small step. Use the Pomodoro technique, working for 25 minutes and taking a 5-minute break in between. Set daily goals that are achievable but will challenge you to move forward. Make a timeline for each task and stick to it. Remember, progress not perfection!

5. Overthinking:

Getting stuck in thought loops can lead to inaction. Practice mindfulness by staying present in the moment. Be aware of any thoughts that arise, but try not to get too caught up in them. Ask yourself, “Is this thought helpful?” If it’s not, try to let it go and move on.

Another helpful technique is to write down your thoughts and feelings in a journal. You’ll be better able to identify patterns and find solutions.

6. Negative Thinking Patterns:

Pervasive thoughts that undermine your confidence and self-esteem are not helpful. Challenge yourself to reframe your thoughts in a more positive light. For example, if you find yourself saying, “I can’t do it,” try saying, “I’m learning how to do it.” The key is to challenge those negative thoughts with evidence.

For example, if you find yourself thinking, “I’m not good enough,” ask yourself, “What evidence do I have that supports this thought?” More often than not, you’ll find that those thoughts are not based on reality.

Also, take note of any triggers that lead to negative thinking patterns. Are there any unhealthy habits or relationships aggravating the problem?

7. Fear of Judgement:

Think about it like this—no matter what you do that’s perceptually “good” or “bad,” you’ll still be judged because someone somewhere will always have an opinion about it. So what’s the point of worrying about what others think?

I mean, yes, it’s natural to not want to be judged and to instead be accepted, but don’t let fear of judgement stop you from living your best life by taking risks and trying new things. Remind yourself that not everyone will agree with your decisions, and that’s okay.

Focus instead on your internal motivation. Think about why you’re doing what you’re doing and visualize the end result.

Surround yourself with supportive people who will help boost your confidence—especially when it’s lacking. Leverage your belief in yourself as well as their support to stay focused on your goals. And if they don’t believe in you, then it’s time to cut them out of your life and find people who do.

8. Not Taking Responsibility:

Sometimes taking responsibility for your mistakes can be hard, especially when they lead to failure or disappointment. But instead of pointing fingers and making excuses, try owning up to what happened and then take actionable steps to make sure it doesn’t happen again.

It’s okay to admit mistakes or shortcomings; it shows that you are aware of them and are willing to work on improving yourself. It also helps build trust and respect in relationships, as people appreciate honesty more than they do perfection.

Always remember to recognize what you can control and accept the things that are out of your hands. Don’t beat yourself up over something you cannot change. Instead, focus on how you can move forward and let go of the past. Taking responsibility for your actions is a surefire way to grow as an individual.

9. Comparison Syndrome:

Comparing yourself to others and feeling inadequate can be toxic. The key is to remember that everyone struggles and has their own unique journey and timeline. Avoid using social media as your barometer for success because what you see isn’t always the full story.

Also, stay away from other triggers that can feed into those feelings of inadequacy. Just focus on your own progress and accomplishments, and practice self-compassion, self-love, self-belief, and self-care.

10. Unhealthy Habits:

Unhealthy coping mechanisms for stress or low self-esteem, like poor diet, inactivity, smoking, drinking, etc., can severely impact your ability to achieve your goals and live a fulfilling life.

Make sure you are taking proactive steps to replace these habits with healthier ones, like eating well, exercising, and spending time with positive people who can lift your spirits. The key is to practice self-care and find healthy ways to manage stress.

Exercise, eat a healthy diet, get enough sleep, and practice stress-reducing activities like saying positive affirmations, praying, exercising, journaling, listening to uplifting music, etc.

It takes time and effort to build new habits, but it’s worth the investment when it comes to improving your life and self-perception. With the right methods and tools in place, you can break free from these self-imposed limitations and elevate your life to the next level.

11. Not Setting Goals:

Lacking direction or clarity can make progress hard to measure. The key is to set specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals. Write them down and break them down into smaller steps to make them more manageable. Highlight and celebrate your accomplishments along the way.

12. Not Seeking Help:

Navigating challenges alone instead of leveraging support from loved ones can be a real roadblock to your progression. The key is to seek out help when you need it. And this doesn’t mean you’re weak—it actually shows strength and wisdom.

It’s important to build a strong support system of friends, family, or professionals who will help you stay on track and offer a different perspective when needed. It also pays to take advantage of resources like free online workshops, self-help books, podcasts, YouTube videos, etc., that can help equip you with the necessary knowledge and tools to reach your goals.

Look for mentors or people with more experience than yourself who can provide valuable knowledge, guidance, and inspiration to help you get to the next level. That’s what friends and family are for!

Also, there is no shame in reaching out to a therapist or counselor if necessary. Talking through issues is incredibly freeing and can help you gain clarity about how to move forward. Plus, they can provide valuable insight by helping you identify patterns and behaviors that are holding you back.


In the end, self-improvement is a personal journey. Everyone’s path looks different based on their unique needs and life experiences. But there is a certain universal principle to keep in mind as you work toward your goals: if you find yourself getting stuck, try to identify any self-imposed limitations and look for ways to break through them.

And while it takes courage to identify and address your self-imposed limitations, it’s worth the effort. You can improve yourself and elevate your life if you have the right mindset and are willing to put in the work. With enough dedication, focus, and self-love, you can break free from any self-imposed limitation that’s holding you back!

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